i have never felt so disappointed in my life before. i quarrelled with a friend recently, and it started out as a joke, but they treated it so seriously. they can joke about me, yet i can;t? what kinda of logic is this. trying to say i judge him? oh my, you judge me about my appearance. shouldn;t i judge you too. since i;m not a friend of yours, why send email to thanks people, since you don;t cherish them. have you ever wonder, how much a friend does for you, and one day you turn your back on her. somehow i felt, i help the wrong person, in a sense, some people take me for granted.i've never been insulted by a person like this. if next time, you ever come across this problem, you will know how i feel. but now it doesn;t matter to you at all, because its not you, but me. if one day you realise all this, please take note of the good friend you have. especially the one who has always been there for you the 2 years, but somehow you take her for granted. let it be, you have new friends to walk on, then just go ahead.

pastor pearch about thr marriage course again. this one is useful towards friendship it impacted me alot about the quarrel.i will only pick out points that is related to the quarrel.
topic:communication , the key to friendship.
the power of words: there are 5 of them
1. words go deep into a person's soul.
which means, what ever you say goes into others soul and heart.
Prov 26:22 the words of a talebearer are like tasty trifles, and they go down into the inmost body
2. words can break a person
Job19:2 "how long will you torment my soul, and break me in pieces with words?"
3. words guide our lives.
Prov. 18:21 death and life are in the power of the tongue.
mark 11:23-24
4.words have great destructive power.
5.words determine the quality of our friendship
prov.12:18 there is one who speaks like the piercings of a sword,but the tongue of the wise promotes health
prov .29:30 do you see a man hasty in his words? there is more hope for a fool than for him
EVERYTHING IS OVER :)
yesterday's service was awesome. i felt God is trying to tell me somthing. i love my dad and mum. if they didn;t give birth to me, i won;t be in church praising God now!. i love my family.